Breakup Therapy · Online · In English

A breakup shouldn't mean rebuilding by yourself, in another language

Professional support in English for ending a relationship — even when your people are a flight away, your family back home doesn't quite understand what happened, and you're rebuilding a life in a city where you're still learning who to call.

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When a breakup crosses a border

A breakup isn't just losing someone. It's losing the life you were building around them.

Maybe the person you just ended things with was also the one who knew your landlord, translated the fine print, and was the first call you made about anything. Now the apartment feels too big, and the people who'd normally sit with you through this are a time zone away — asleep when the missing hits hardest.

And maybe your family calls to ask what happened, and you find yourself explaining it in a language that doesn't quite hold the words — translating not just the relationship, but the whole life you'd built around it. That's not you overreacting. Ending something you built far from home is its own kind of loss, and it deserves its own kind of care — not a rushed "you'll be fine."

Ricardo De Castro King — Clinical psychologist

Who's with you

I'm Ricardo, and I look at the whole picture — not just the ending

I'm a clinical psychologist with more than 15 years accompanying people through breakups and loss, trained in systemic family therapy. That training means I don't just look at you in isolation — I look at the bond itself, the people around it, and what its ending is asking you to rebuild. I live and practice from Barranquilla, Colombia, and I work with clients online, in English. I think in Spanish too, and I understand what it means to close a chapter across a border, a screen, or a language.

A breakup is easier to carry with someone beside you. If this feels like the moment, let's take the first step together — at your pace, no strings attached.

Master's in Systemic Family Therapy

Universidad Simón Bolívar

Clinical psychologist

More than 15 years of experience

University professor

Teaching and research in psychology

Systemic-relational approach

Evidence-based

Professional License 106127 (COLPSIC)
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My approach

How I support a breakup in therapy

I work from a systemic-relational approach: I don't treat your breakup as a failure to get over quickly, but as part of your history, your bonds, and — for many of the people I work with — a chapter that also closed across a border.

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The relationship, not just the ending

We look at the bond itself — what it gave you, what it asked of you, and the patterns you brought into it — so you understand what happened without turning it into a verdict on yourself.

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Your pace, no deadline from home

Family back home may want you "over it" fast, and the life you built here doesn't pause either. You don't owe anyone a timeline — we work from wherever you actually are today.

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An identity that isn't tied to a place or a person

If you moved for or around this relationship, part of the work is sorting out what's actually yours to keep — your friendships, your routines, your sense of home — apart from what you built around them.

How we begin

A clear first step, no pressure

1

You schedule your assessment session

Message me on WhatsApp or leave your details in the form. We'll book a first 60-minute video session, at a reduced rate (50% off).

2

We talk through what happened

In that first session, I listen to your story — what the relationship meant, how it ended, and how you've been carrying it, wherever in the world you're carrying it from. No rushed diagnoses, no jargon: just understanding, together, what you need.

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We decide the process together

You decide with real information, not blindly. If it feels right, we build a process suited to you. If not, I'll still point you toward what you need.

This isn't about forgetting the person you loved. It's about no longer needing them back to feel like yourself again.

— Ricardo De Castro King · Psychologist

Your first step

Start with an assessment session

A first session to get to know each other and shape your process. At a reduced rate, so you decide with real information — not out of obligation.

US$25US$49.9950%

60 minutes · Video call · 100% confidential

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Want to explore first?

Want to understand what you're going through?

If you want to keep learning while you decide, you can start here. There are free breakup resources, in English, waiting for you.

Free breakup resources

This will take you to MomentoVital, my open resource hub.

Also in therapy

Other processes I can support you with

Prefer to talk first?

Write to me, and I'll answer personally

If you're not ready to schedule yet and would rather tell me what's going on first, message me on WhatsApp or leave your details below. I answer personally, usually within 24 hours, no obligation.

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📍 Online · Barranquilla, Colombia

🕑 Mon–Fri 8am–7pm · Sat 9am–1pm (Colombia time)

I'll answer within 24 hours · Your information is 100% confidential.

If you're in an emotional crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, please seek help right away: in Colombia, Line 106; in the U.S., call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline); or the mental health or emergency line in your own city. You are not alone, and you deserve support right now.

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