Starting Over Therapy · Online, in English
Professional psychological support, in English, for when the life you built comes apart — a move, a breakup, a job loss, an ending — and you're rebuilding it, one step at a time, from someone who thinks the way you do.
When you have to rebuild everything
Something came apart — a job, a relationship, a life plan — and now everything you took for granted has to be rebuilt: your sense of who you are, your finances, your routine, your day-to-day. For a lot of people who started over in a new country, that rebuilding is literal: a new address with none of your old friends in it, a résumé that doesn't quite translate the way you hoped, a language you now think in at work but still count money and dream in the other one. It can feel impossible, even while part of you is already, without noticing, starting to do it.
People around you may rush you to «look on the bright side», or assume you should already be rebuilt. But starting over isn't an event, it's a process: it needs room to grieve what's gone, and at the same time, room to take concrete steps toward what's next.
Who's with you
I'm a clinical psychologist with more than 15 years of experience, trained in systemic family therapy. I'm Colombian, based in Barranquilla, and I see clients online, many of them in English — people who think in Spanish first and are now rebuilding a life in a country where nobody around them shared the one they had before. You don't have to explain that part to me first.
Rebuilding goes better with someone next to you. If this feels like the moment, let's take the first step together — at your pace, no pressure.
Master's in Systemic Family Therapy
Universidad Simón Bolívar
Clinical Psychologist
15+ years of clinical experience
University Professor
16 years of university teaching
Systemic-Relational Approach
Family and relational focus
Ricardo is licensed as a psychologist in Colombia (Professional License 106127) and works with international clients in private practice. He does not prescribe medication. Rules on cross-border online therapy vary by country and by state, so it's worth checking what applies where you live — and this never replaces local emergency care.
Book a Session With MeMy approach
I work from a systemic-relational approach: I don't look at rebuilding as a problem to solve quickly, but within your story, your identity, and what you lost — including, often, the people and places that used to hold that identity up.
We look together at what you lost — not just the obvious part, but the identity and plans that were resting on it, including, for many, a home country, a language you used to think entirely in, or a version of yourself that made sense there. So we rebuild on a clear foundation.
You don't have to solve your whole new life in a week. We work with concrete priorities: what depends on you today — paperwork, a routine, one relationship, one decision — and what can wait.
I help you find who you are beyond what ended, without denying the grief of what it was — including the parts of yourself that don't fit neatly into either language.
How we start
Message me on WhatsApp or leave your details in the form. We'll set up a first 60-minute video-call session, at a reduced rate (50% off).
In that first session I listen to what came apart and how rebuilding has been so far. No rushed diagnoses, no jargon — just understanding, together, what you need.
You decide with real information, not blindly. If it feels right for you, we agree on a process built around you. If not, I'll still point you toward what you need.
It's not about going back to who you were before. It's about discovering who you can be now, with what you learned.
— Ricardo De Castro King · Psychologist
Your first step
A first session to meet each other and shape your process. Reduced rate, so you decide with real information, not out of obligation.
60 minutes · Video call · 100% confidential
Book My Assessment SessionWant to explore first?
If you want to learn more while you decide, you can start here. I put together free resources on starting over — reinvention stories and practical guides, in English — to support you starting today.
Free resources on starting overThis will take you to MomentoVital, my space for open resources.
Before you book
No. It applies to any major life transition: a move, a job loss, a grief, or a big change in identity or life plans.
There's no fixed timeline. It depends on what came apart and how many areas of your life need rebuilding. We define it together based on your situation.
That's exactly where the first session begins: sorting out with you what comes first, without you needing to arrive with everything figured out.
It can overlap, especially if there's a loss involved, but here the focus is on rebuilding forward, not only on processing what's gone.
US$25 (50% off the regular US$49.99 rate), 60 minutes by video call.
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Prefer to talk first?
If you're not ready to book and would rather tell me a bit first, message me on WhatsApp or leave your details below. I answer personally within 24 hours, no obligation.
WhatsApp Directly📍 Online · Barranquilla, Colombia
🕑 Mon-Fri 8am - 7pm · Sat 9am - 1pm (Colombia time)
If you're in emotional crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, please seek help right away: in Colombia, call Line 106, or in the US call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), or reach your local mental health line. You are not alone, and help is available right now.